In my previous article on Advice for NewlyWeds on Successful Marriage(1) where I treated what can newly weds do to attain successful and enjoyable marriage. I have discussed about four tips in the previous article. The renaining tips are what this write up will entail in order for you to have full useful information about this topic.
Always Express Appreciation
Couple should make sure that they show true and
deepest appreciation to each other. That is they must be able to always recognize
presence of each other as well as importance of each other towards the success
of the marriage and always put it at the back of their mind that one can not be
successful in any thing without other. If this can be stick to by the couple,
they will be able to feel each other if anything happens to other one. In
short, couple must make it a rule at their mind that each of them is important in decision making, viewpoint and ideas.
Always Forgive Each Other Easily and Quickly
In marriage, there is no way couple will not offend
each other that is why couple should develop altitude of quick and easy
forgiveness towards each other. This is because marriage without quick
forgiveness will definitely bring resentment and mistrust which is very poisonous
for marriage while quick forgiveness among couple will strengthen the love that
bond the marriage together for life.
Always Cultivate Self – Sacrifice Altitude
Each of the couple should not always put him or herself
first in everything or every decision they are making. That is couple should always
put his or her marriage mate’s need and preferences ahead his or her own. In
this way, they will be able to strengthen the commitment that they are putting
into the marriage which will definitely increase the bond between them and make
them to get more closer.
Arrogant, Rudeness and Egoism Should Not Be Allowed
Couple should make sure nothing in term of decision
making, viewpoint , questioning or discussing and etc should be done out of arrogant or
rudeness or egoism. Instead everything must be done with lowliness of mind.
This will always bring respect to each other and superiority to one another. If
this tips can be followed and used, the conflict that always arises due to inferiority
of marriage mates will be totally eliminated and love will definitely reign.
Lastly, the advice for newly weds on successful
marriage discussed above are what most of the successful couple have revealed to us as these are what
they have been implementing for them to attain long lasting marriage.
Therefore, I highly recommend them for all newly weds to implement. Surely
successful marriage is GUARANTEED.